can you see my pain?
Monday, October 30 at 7:30 p.m.


"The 'typical' self-injurer, if there is one, would be a white, middle-class woman of above average intelligence who began cutting herself in adolescence. She has low self-esteem and may suffer from bouts of depression.

"She has trouble relating to people and forming intimate relationships. Despite her smarts and education she has an extremely hard time articulating her thoughts and feelings and a seemingly insatiable need for love and acceptance.

" These self-injurers have remained largely hidden within society; any efforts to help them have usually focused narrowly on the medical treatment of specific wounds and not on the holistic care of the person and his or her psychological problems."


Bodily Harm: The Breakthrough Treatment Program for Self-Injurers
New York, Hyperion, 1998. By Karen Conterio and Wendy Lader, Ph.D.






"I encounter two characteristics in all self-mutilators: (1) A feeling of mental disintegration, of inability to think; and, (2) rage that can't be expressed, or even consciously perceived, toward a powerful figure (or figures) in their lives, usually a parent.
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Cutting: Understanding and Overcoming Self-Mutilation,
Steven Levenkron, (c)1998, W. W. Norton and Company





Chronic self-injurers cannot JUST STOP IT. They must learn, with the help of skilled, caring professionals, alternative ways to deal with the inner turmoil that compels them to seek relief through physical pain.

Self-injurers commonly report they feel empty inside, over or under stimulated, unable to express their feelings, lonely, not understood by others and fearful of intimate relationships and adult responsibilities. Self-injury is their way to cope with or relieve painful or hard-to-express emotions. Although it is generally not a suicide attempt, the relief that results is only temporary, and without proper treatment a self-destructive cycle often develops. Early diagnosis and treatment are of the utmost importance.

Self-injury is sometimes referred to as the "wounding embrace," because people use it to harm and comfort themselves at the same time. The razor blade takes the place of a hug, a compliment, a mother's kiss.


The behaviors include: cutting, scratching, picking scabs or interfering with wound healing, burning, punching oneself or objects, infecting oneself, inserting objects in body openings, bruising or breaking bones, hair-pulling and other various acts of bodily harm. Such acts, which pose serious risks, may be symptoms of a mental health problem that can be treated.


Though not exclusively, a self-injurer is usually from a middle to upper class background, of average to high intelligence, and has low self-esteem.


There is an important distinction between those who are self-injurers and those who are suicidal. "People who are suicidal obviously want to end their lives," says Dr. Armando Favazza. "Self-mutilators do not want to die. They simply want to feel better and their act is one of self-help -- although it's a morbid form of self-help." In the end, of course, it is "a faulty coping mechanism that does not resolve a problem and can leave a person horribly scarred and disfigured."


Dr. Favazza goes on to say that there are many factors - both psychological and cultural - that may lead people to harm themselves in this way. Some can't make the transition to adulthood responsibility. About 40 percent will have a history of eating disorders, and about half have a childhood history of abuse. But he stresses there is no single pattern or profile to the behavior. "Every person has a different life experience and some will end up being sick and some won't," he says. "They're just caught up in a behavior they cannot control."



Diagnosis and Treatment:

If someone displays the signs and symptoms of self-injury, a mental health professional with self-injury expertise should be consulted. An evaluation or assessment is the first step, followed by a recommended course of treatment to prevent the self-destructive cycle from continuing. Self-injury treatment options include outpatient therapy, partial (6-12 hours a day) and in-patient hospitalization. When the behaviors interfere with daily living, such as employment and relationships, and are health or life-threatening, a specialized self-injury hospital program with an experienced staff is recommended.

The effective treatment of self-injury is most often a combination of medication, cognitive/behavioral therapy, and interpersonal therapy, supplemented by other treatment services as needed. Medication is often useful in the management of depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive behaviors, and the racing thoughts that may accompany self-injury. Cognitive-behavioral therapy helps individuals understand and manage their destructive thoughts and behaviors. Contracts, journals and behavior logs are useful tools for regaining self-control.

Interpersonal therapy assists individuals in gaining insight and skills for the development and maintenance of relationships. Services for eating disorders, alcohol/substance abuse, trauma abuse, and family therapy should be readily available and integrated into treatment, depending on individual needs.


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What is self-injury?

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WARNING SIGNS:
  • Unexplained frequent injuries, including cuts and burns

  • Wearing long pants and sleeves in warm weather

  • Low self-esteem

  • Difficulty handling feelings

  • Poor functioning at work, school or home

  • Relationship problems



  • The onset is usually at puberty and has a duration of 5 to 10 years - often much longer without appropriate treatment

  • nearly fifty percent of those engaged in such behaviors report physical and/or sexual abuse during childhood

  • ninety percent report being discouraged from expressing emotions, particularly anger and sadness

  • one-half to two-thirds have an eating disorder

  • a significant number are also struggling with alcohol or other substance abuse problems

  • a self injurer is usually a white female from a middle to upper class background, of average to high intelligence, and has low self-esteem.



Successful courses of treatment are marked by:

  1. Patients who are actively involved in and committed to their treatment.

  2. Aftercare plans with support for the patient's new self-management skills and behaviors.

  3. Collaboration with referring and other involved professionals.
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